Valentine's Day cards: mail deadlines and what to write
February 14 is the single busiest greeting-card day of the year, and the postal service knows it — which is why the smart money mails by February 4th. Whether it's year one or year thirty, here's how to get the card there and make it count.
Rule of thumb: start 10 daysahead. That's enough time to choose a card, write something real, and let the mail do its slow, charming thing.
Timing and message tips
Mailing? Send by February 4–6. Valentine's volume slows delivery, and a valentine on the 15th is a sympathy card.
Hand-delivering? Have it written by the 12th. The 13th-at-11pm card has a distinct energy and recipients can detect it.
Skip "Happy Valentine's Day" as your only line — it's the one thing the card already says in foil. Write why them, this year.
Long-distance couples: the mailed card is the main event, not a supplement. Time it to land on the 13th or 14th exactly.
Long-married? The unexpected register is playful — a card that flirts after 20 years of marriage is a power move.
Set a reminder for February 1: enough time to buy, write, and mail without joining the drugstore panic on the 13th.
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