Mother's Day cards: when to mail and what to write

Mother's Day moves — second Sunday in May in the US — which is precisely how it sneaks up on everyone. Card volume rivals Valentine's, so the mail needs a full ten days. Here's the timing, plus what to write for moms, grandmas, and the mother-figures in between.

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Rule of thumb: start 10 daysahead. That's enough time to choose a card, write something real, and let the mail do its slow, charming thing.

Timing and message tips

  1. Mail 10 days before the second Sunday in May — that means late April, which is earlier than it ever feels like it should be.

  2. The strongest Mother's Day sentence is specific gratitude: one thing she did, one habit of hers you've inherited, one sacrifice you understand better now.

  3. New mom in your life (sister, friend, daughter)? A card for her first Mother's Day is a big swing for very little effort — almost nobody thinks to send one.

  4. Don't forget grandmothers, stepmothers, and mothers-in-law. The "mom adjacent" cards are the least expected and most appreciated.

  5. If your handwriting has news in it — the job, the move, the grandkid's new word — include it. For moms, information is affection.

  6. Set the reminder for mid-April. Mother's Day's floating date defeats memory; it should not defeat a calendar.

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